A sample from our chapter on the idea that women do not "need" men

A sample from The Future Is Male - Advice to My Son on How Not to Be a Snowflake on the idea that women do not "need" men:

Chapter Five: of Women Who Need Men

A woman needs someone to hold her
Not someone to just lay her down
I want someone I can count on
A cool headed, warm hearted shoulder
To cry on, rely on, today and from now on
—“Shinola” music and lyrics Dolly Parton

A family friend once said that your sister did not “need a man” when we were speaking of her eventual marriage. I wondered what you thought of that, as I think it was not only a wildly inaccurate statement but also by its tone evidenced a palpable hostility to men. I rarely, if ever, have heard men say, “I don't need women,” but I hear Leftists in our society constantly harp on why women do not “need” men. This sentiment is dangerous for young men, which is why I am taking such issue with deprecation of men. I have unfortunately observed this time and again, where women are taught this anti-male sentiment and realize either too late or almost too late that they do indeed need a husband and children. 


Let me put it squarely. The statement women do not need men is balderdash, for women need men and men need women. To put it even more bluntly, I think that most women very badly need a man and most men very badly need a woman. This is an obvious truth I will not cease imparting to my children.

But popular culture keeps insisting women should decide they don’t “need” a man. Moana? She doesn’t need any man, at least one that is real. Elsa? Well, she just doesn’t need any man — just an ability to freeze the whole world and keep the world’s most cloying sidekick alive. Princess Leia, aka General Organa? She certainly doesn’t “need" Han Solo. Captain Marvel? No men need apply, even though, she might make the right man very happy.











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